Kissing Connectivity: Keeping Your Relationship Hot A kiss can mean so much, or nothing at all. "It can make them feel attractive, cared for, and even boost their self-esteem.
And, whether remembered as sweet and tender, shy and hesitant, or as bumped heads and noses, we don't forget it. We wonder if and when the object of our affections will bestow us with a kiss. You went to see a movie with subtitles and he seemed to like it. Kisses can range from slow, sweet ones to urgent, fiery ones.We wonder if our knees will get weak, our pulse will race, or if it will be a dud. We analyze every detail of our interaction with the opposite sex with the precision of a scientist. Does he really like foreign movies or is he only trying to please you? Moreover, it us unrealistic to expect passion every single day of our lives. D, co-director of the Center for Relationship Development ( at Seattle Pacific University and author of "Relationships: Making Bad Relationships Better and Good Relationships Great", women do read more into kissing than men.How many times in books, the movies, and in real life has it been proven that a relationship built on passion alone cannot survive?Without a deep, emotional connection between two people, a lasting love cannot thrive.
And by lasting love, I mean one that can withstand the ups and downs of every day life.Factors like compatibility, similar values and goals, mutual respect, trust, and friendship should be weighed alongside physical attraction.A passion that feeds on itself will eventually burn out. Have your kisses with your partner lost their zing lately? As your relationship continues to grow, continue to grow the passion.If you and your partner concentrate on feeling an emotional connection with each other, you will make a passionate connection as well."For couples who have been [together] for some time, kissing isn't as exciting as it was when you first started dating," says Dr. "But you need to continue to make kissing a priority," she continues."Passionate kissing is great but one of the goals of kissing is to stay connected." The Perfunctory Kiss "Bye, Honey. Often, once the days of courtship are over, couples tend to fall into a routine, which is anything but romantic. Love, tenderness, passion, and devotion, to name just a few.