I've read so many positive and prop-worthy updates on here today.
That's because y'all so busy propping anything goofy and gender bashing, and commenting on orchestrated controversial posts.
He is very secretive about her and doesn’t let me see what she writes to him.
My husband gets very angry when I tell him how much this hurts me.
We have had our share of problems through the years and have always managed to work them out up until now.
I have become depressed and I feel unimportant to him. He tells me he hates jealousy and that I should trust him, but it is hard not to feel that way when he spends so much time with her. Your husband has stepped over boundary lines in your marriage. Marriage is for two people, husband and wife, with no one else between you.
Your marriage and your friendship take precedence over any “female” friend (or whatever). This is a relationship at the very least and definitely wrong for a married man to participate in. Please contact AACC for a referral to a counseling professional in your area.
He is destroying the trust, intimacy and commitment in your marriage. If he refuses to go to counseling with you, ask him to see your pastor about this.You need to go to your pastor and/or a counselor even if he doesn’t come with you.This situation may require separation if he is not willing to work on your marriage.I do not advocate divorce, but separation may show him how serious you are about his behavior and that you will not tolerate it. What he is doing is breaking the trust in your relationship.Trust is a very important ingredient and foundational to your marriage.How can you be united as a couple if another woman is so important to him that he ignores your concerns and talks to her daily and keeps it secret from you?