My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys. Man B: No, but the attraction has always been there. Man A: I like how mature they can be when handling serious situations, but also how playful and youthful they are.
Man B: Yes, I didn't like that most women my own age didn't seem to be in control of the relationship or in bed.Man C: I married a girl my age and dated a couple others who were around my age.They don't really know what they want and are still finding their way. With girls my own age, we only had sex a few times a month.Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked about like it's a way to "mix things up" sexually. In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three men about what it's like to love sleeping with much older women in a world that tries to make it seem like that's a rarity. I love dating in general, but I feel like older woman just have more to offer.Rarely do you hear about men who specifically want to sleep with women 15+ years older than them as more than just a passing Mrs. They have experience that is more valuable than anything.
Man C: Nothing is really different about sleeping with older women. In many cases, they've already had their families, so neither of us are dependent on the other. Man A: There wasn't anything I didn't like about it.
Overall, she is definitely in control of the situation, which I find really sexy.
I just follow directions given, which puts much less pressure on me.
Society isn't as used to seeing it as we'd like them to be. Man B: Older women know what they want, so I don't have to guess.
Man A: I'm single now, but in my last relationship, I was 24 and she was 40. Man C: There's less drama with older women and they are much less likely to be dependent on you. Man A: The social stigma can be tough, but I have brushed it aside. Man A: Some friends thought it was cool in some ways, but other friends didn't. They aren't objects, but in my experience, they certainly aim to please overall.
You don't expect someone who is so much older to have so much in common with you or the desire to connect with you the way some older women do. And with 15 years more experience, they're more interesting to talk to. Man A: Older women are more open to letting you try new things.