We all know that some men can be as good as gold while others are the complete opposite.
Just because you might prepare yourself for the thunderstorm and pack your umbrella, doesn’t mean you won’t get wet.Players often hide behind the guise of a nice, honest gentleman, who will treat you with nothing but respect.But the minute you let your guard down and let him into your life, you’ll start to get that nagging suspicion that something’s not right.Before you even know it, you’ve been played, dumped and left heartbroken in one fell swoop. You don’t have to be dating a guy to tell if he’s probably a player.How to spot a player Spotting a player is just a matter of observing little signs that point to his womanizing ways. At the gym recently, I witnessed first-hand a guy turn to check out a girl’s butt who was walking in front of me, to then see him turn back around, face me, and smirk.
You know the kind of smirk basically saying “‘sup girl” without actually saying it?When I see guys with their girlfriends, or married men walking behind their wives at the mall, who literally think they are slick when they turn around to check a girl out, words like disgusting, pathetic and slime come to mind.As women, we all know the whole look-over-the-shoulder-neck-turn-checkout routine, and it’s not slick!The point is, if you have any type of connection that is more than just friends, and you catch his wandering eyes checking out other girls in front of you, don’t waste any more of your time on him.Chances are, he’ll do more than just stare when you’re not watching.[Read: How to keep your guy’s eyes from wandering] #2 “Parents love him.” If you’re talking to a guy who says something like “parents love me!