You can say it a million different ways but it all still means you wish to not entertain them romantically.Now don’t get me wrong, you shouldn’t be rude or nasty with it.You can deliver the message very nicely but it still must clearly state that you are not interested.
Not to mention when it isn’t clearly stated you allow them to try to interpret what you are trying to express.This can lead to countless hours of analyzing on their part which will still end in a way that leaves them unhappy with the fact that you just are not interested.Another huge mistake that we make as people is telling a lie because we either : 1. Afraid to reveal the truth for our own personal reasons or 3.So for the past few weeks people have been submitting questions they need advice on.One question that has come up a few times is “how do I tell someone I’m not interested without hurting them?
” This is something that many people have faced at some point in their lives.Nobody really wants to be the bad guy, but is there much way around that?There are so many ways you can go about showing you’re not interested but they won’t always be received correctly.That person may also choose not to accept what you thought was an obvious sign because they can find ways to justify interpreting it in a different way.So I am going to lay out the most effective ways to let a person know you’re just not interested. I know some of you are thinking “well that’s just mean”, but is it really?No matter how you choose to let them down, you can’t prevent the fact that it will hurt them to some extent.