Are you just about to go through a divorce and are worried about how you’ll take your next romantic step when you’re ready to start seeing people again?
The dating scene will be there whenever you’re ready to dip your toe in.And it’s vital that you do wait until you’re ready or you won’t be open to the idea of a new relationship.Remember as well that just because your former partner has started dating again doesn’t mean you have to.Take your time, lick your wounds and make sure you’re in a healthy space before saying yes to that first date.The pain of going through a divorce can understandably mess with your head and your heart, but you shouldn’t rush into a new relationship with the first person who gives you some attention.
You need to take it slowly so you can work out if they’re the right person for you – and if they’re worth your time.
The idea of your former partner is sure to be comforting and familiar, even if your marriage didn’t work for whatever reason, so it’s easy to start a relationship with someone similar to them.
But try and take a few risks, agreeing to dates with people who are wildly different to your former spouse.
You never know where you might end up – which is half the fun of dating in the first place.
The joy of embarking on a new relationship is that you can be anyone you want to be.
Take this opportunity to be the new and improved you, learning from all the mistakes you may have made in your marriage.