If your neighbor with benefits happens to be a swinger couple, then you’ve got someone you can talk to about your experiences in the lifestyle.
It was nice getting a woman’s perspective on things. Walk over to your neighbor’s and see if you can borrow some sugar.
You’re baking a cheesecake for Thanksgiving and realize you are out of sugar. If you’re lucky, you might get more than the kind of sugar you need for the recipe.
The familiarity and compatibility of knowing you and your neighbor are there for each other without all of the emotional baggage that a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship might bring is very liberating.
We would hang out and chat late into the night, or she would need help doing things around the house occasionally. There was always an underlying sexual tension, though, until one day when we decided to act on it.
I made that crumpled up face we do with pouted lips and a furrowed brow, half closing one eye while deep in thought, slowly nodding my head up and down and saying “hmm…” I figured it was her boyfriend, but I found out later it was her brother. I made it a point to introduce myself, and we became friends.
I pulled into my driveway, and there she was talking to somebody, a guy I hadn’t seen before.From that moment on, we became neighbors with benefits.Even during a period when I had an open-minded girlfriend, we would hook up occasionally.I found out there are some great advantages to having a neighbor with benefits: So you call your neighbor and invite her over to watch a movie and more.Or she is sitting home alone, feeling lonely on Wednesday night, and sends you a text message to see if you want to come over.Either way, you can’t beat the convenience of being 100 feet away.