One of the questions that Christian Carter addresses in his Catch Him and Keep him e Book is how to have a conversation with a man in a way to promote attraction, especially when you first meet.
These three qualities are very high on the list of what really DOES create attraction for a man.One of the questions Christian Carter tells his readers to ask a man is “What kind of woman do you respect?” This questions is a VERY high value question, because not only is it a unique thing to ask in a conversation, but it also communicates to him that respect is high on YOUR list of characteristics.His answer will reveal to YOU how he looks at women, what qualities he looks for in a woman and what he likes and dislikes – all without you asking him twenty different questions to put together the same answer.This also creates attraction for a man because it shows him that YOU are not too taken with him to realize that HE has to meet YOUR quality standards.
Christian Carter writes that this is a “fun and subtle kind of tension building” (Christian Carter, Catch Him and Keep him, p 205) that helps lead to sexual tension and attraction for a man.(To get the Catch Him and Keep Him e Book, go here: and click on the e Book picture! You are challenging him to answer a unique question, putting him on the spot to see how he will react and gauging his character all in one. This mix of seriousness and flirtatiousness is an attractive factor to most men, and will leave him intrigued and trying to see if he can answer your expectations in the right way. Christian Carter also reveals to women readers in his e Book that there are certain questions men may really want to AVOID answering. We just have to find another way to ASK these questions, right?So things like asking him if he wants to settle down, have a family and a wife, or being honest about what kind of woman he wants to be with or have a relationship with – they are tough questions for a guy.Christian carter says that the “secret is to not avoid these issues, but turn them to your advantage.Men have a whole set of "triggers" wired around these things that are waiting for women to tap into, as long as they are approached the right way.And if a woman can get to these triggers, she'll have a whole different experience and a more direct kind of honesty with the guy that most women will never see” (Christian Carter, Catch Him and Keep Him, p 206) So – the idea is to approach these things in a unique and “cool” kind of way in order to challenge him, raise his attraction and get him intrigued and wanting more.