If you were wondering how to talk to a quiet guy or how to make him open up to you, read on: these 15 tips will help.
A common misconception about introversion is that the introvert is shy.The reality is most introverts spend time at home, or someplace peaceful such as the mountains, thinking about what ever they like.This is good advice whether he's introverted or shy, but especially if he's shy.As a shy, introverted girl, I know it’s always been difficult for other, more extroverted people to get me to feel comfortable around them.So, I can totally emphasize with the shy dudes of the world out there.
Actually, sometimes I think things may be even harder for shy guys.
Even being in my position, I’ve met shy guys who have totally confused me.
That’s partly because dealing with shy people is hard, even if you’re shy, and partly because we’ve all been socialized to feel that dudes should be the ones who reach out and initiate anything that has to do with dating.
So, when they’re quiet and a little uncomfortable around girls, we can’t help but feel like we have no clue what to do.
I’ve read so many questions from some of you girls who have crushes on shy guys and feel pretty helpless, so when I saw this Reddit thread on how to make introverted and shy men feel more comfortable around you, I knew I had to share it.
These tips are from actual quiet dudes, so you know they’re legit.